I’m just going to toss this out there. There are a variety of hosting “styles” if you will. As a player, if I don’t care for a particular host style, then I don’t attend. Hosts put in a lot of time providing entertainment for others, and they can’t be perfect for everyone, but as long as they announce their rules ahead of time, players will know what to expect. If people stop attending maybe the host has to reconsider how they do things. Hosts shouldn’t be rude, and I know that players don’t want to hear about how high the host is all the time. These behaviors say they aren’t thinking of their players as much as themselves.
As a host, I do not see it as a time to have the attention on myself but, rather, to try and make it a fun experience for the players. This may include providing special doorprizes, extra vouchers, asking questions that bring players into conversation if things seem quiet, joking with players, etc. My weekly game is Acro and I don’t speed through it. Sometimes I get in 9 rounds, sometimes I get in 7…. I try to follow the flow of the players on any particular day. If someone doesn’t answer, I give three notices and then move on but I try to make it FUN for everyone. If someone wants a faster pace and just focuses on ten rounds… there are other hosts that do that. I see my game as more of an experience for an hour with laughs and no stress.
Let’s be supportive of each other – rarely can an issue not be solved by simple discussion. and being open to suggestions in order to make more positive experiences for the PLAYERS.